Dating, SEX, & Money in The Philippines 🇵🇭 | A Spicy Dialogue

This video takes a deep dive into the mind of a Filipina about the culture of dating, sex, and money in the Philippines! Brace yourself for this unfiltered conversation between Grace and I.

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00:00 Intro
03:33 Do you like to date Filipino guys?
05:29 What do Filipinas think about black guys?
07:23 Do Filipina Women prefer black guys?
11:18 Once you go black…
15:06 What do Filipinas like to do on the 1st date?
18:13 Food in exchange for sex?
24:03 Grace’s toenails
24:41 How much money do Filipinas prefer a guy to make?
30:37 Do Filipinas believe in being independent?
36:07 An incentive for Americans to visit the Philippines
36:59 Spicy Talk begins 😉
37:40 Grace poured my Vodka
38:02 Craziest place you’ve had sex
38:57 Do Filipino guys do it different?
40:33 Music or no music?
41:26 Lights on or off?
44:19 The thrill of getting caught
45:22 Do emotions enhance the sex?
47:49 Have you ever had a 3some?
55:58 What’s your favorite position?
57:26 Conclusion

Warning if you are sensitive to topics involving sex dating or race hit the like button and exit the video otherwise hit the like button enjoy the conversation and drop your thoughts in the comment section below hey you grown now you 25 gracious turned 25 all right it was her birthday

Yesterday and um she had a great birthday that’s a great one but yeah did you have a great birthday we went out to the club I feel like we go to like four different places yeah we went to a couple of different clubs in maati and you know it was good

It was fun the energy level is just very very high um in the Philippines they really know how to party all right Filipinos they know how to party like when you go out like the energy is just on another level right and they play the Taylor Swifts and the Nicki Minaj’s and

Cardi B all the mainstream American Music the Filipinos be you know how yeah Filipinos know how the priy what about your birthday cake and also just being [Laughter] here like how how was that part of your birthday well the the birthday cake is I never expected you to get me one but I

Appreciate you getting me one yes and me being here oh you know already that I love being here yes I like hanging out with you because you’re a cool guy and you always make me love thank you guys that’s I love cooking for you you deserve it yeah I’m very appreciative and you

Know grateful that you like to spend time and you know have a good time I can leave in here you know you can live I can’t run I told you I can run your household Grace really can run the house like she can do everything and it’s just like natural like it’s just

Like instinctive like she just it just does it and that’s great because like I need the offset because I don’t know how to cook you know and sometimes you know I may not be the cleanest person so it’s good that Grace could come through and save the

Day but uh yeah Grace had an amazing birthday that chocolate cake that I got Grace was super good too super good um so probably going to get some more of that later after I get some more of this pant set I give everything to you this is good I’mma finish this I’mma finish

This and this is going to uh this might help put me to uh anyway you more more there okay cool this be good you I can say you eating pette you’re Filipino I’m Filipino I’m officially Filipino baby Grace has inducted me into the Filipino

Hall of yes so if you eat pet if you like that yeah when it comes to dating right do you like to date Filipino guys even though I know the answer to this question but no I don’t you don’t like Filipino guys as much I yeah because I

Know to myself that I mean I don’t want to meet someone that is like exactly my attitude you know what I mean cuz I know it’s going to be good but but in the same time we’re just going to keep crashing to each other because they’re the same yeah because

We’re have the same attitude because I know phing guys you’re very loving you’re very Lov but when you want a loving guy like don’t you like no I want a loving guy but in the same time they’re very jealous you know Filipino the Filipinos um they’re very loving they’re also caring they’re very

Like how do you say um they always have initiative but the worst part of that is that they’re very possessive and they’re very jealous like when they get jealous and possessive it’s like in the highest level and I don’t want that I mean cuz me I never get like

Attracted to Filipino guy maybe I like the attention that they giving me but I’m not seeing myself like they now you know I mean but you like the attention they give you yeah I mean they can say okay you’re really pretty and then you do this like that that that but that’s

It I’m not like thinking like going a different level okay so you just like the attention and you may like maybe some friends or something some friends but you wouldn’t take it serious yeah maybe like a friendship thing orbe friendship I’m not like thinking having a being a boyfriend okay interesting interesting

So what do you think about um what do you think about black guys we really know the answer to that oh my God so what do you think about black guys do you you know do you like black guys the one with the filter I like black guys you like black

Guys they say you never go back when you have black you never go back you never go back girl said when you go black you never go back for me cuz I tell you when you’re black it’s a plus for me if you also speak English is like the best thing for

Me I’m attracted to like how the guy talks like you having this kind of accent this is attractive to me so you like my accent oh oh oh yeah so I like that so I’m like a guy that can speak English you know I don’t want to have like a conversation

With we’re talking and I keep saying you say what you say what I don’t understand I don’t like that so I I it’s like attractive to me if a guy know how to speak very good English cuz me I work on my English you know yes you speak great English I work

On this it’s like of course not going to be the a good first in like the beginning but I work hard for like speaking like this so I want a guy like if I keep if I’m talking to him when you’re black or something I want the guy

Also talk to me like it’s attractive to me if you know how to speak good English you like that you like that love it and you black too o [Laughter] o so would you say so I know we went out last night I got a chance to meet like your friends

And they they seem like they like black guys too they do so is it common like do Filipino women like prefer black guys or is it just like told you when you go black you never go back I mean but also there’s like some Filipinos like girls they don’t like

They don’t like they prefer Filipinos wh no wh or philipin okay I was about to say the Filipino guys is get no love um so okay so there are Filipino girls who prefer like white yes I I know some I know some people they prefer like they prefer the white whites yeah interesting

May because no because for me I’m not saying all of it like all the white guys are like this MH but based only on my experience MH so so for me white guys that I mean that I dated before they only want like what small time like shorter like they want

To meet you you had like sex mhm and then after that they just say okay bye-bye like they’re not going to say bye-bye they’re not going to talk to you anymore oh the white guys yeah my experience okay I’m not saying all of them are like that but maybe I only met

Like people who only like f something like that but those so that’s what I think that’s why I don’t like white guys okay cuz you know I feel when I dated like black guys they’re they’re nice they’re very warm they’re kind they’re very sweet as well they’re also very

Caring and after you meet if you make like the connection or something like that they want to keep meeting you right so maybe that’s the thing that I like about dating a black guy because they make you feel good but also want to keep thing going you know what I mean yeah

That makes sense Grace no that makes sense interesting and that’s this is from your experiences so yeah I think that’s an interesting perspective um when it comes to dating foreigners because a lot of people don’t know like you know what a Filipino girl like may prefer um and I know it’s not many

Black people here um it’s a lot of Africans like the Africans are here heavy it’s a lot of Africans but um you know still you know it’s it’s it’s an interesting perspective being like a black black person in the Philippines um but if you’re if you are

A black guy and you have an interest in coming to the Philippines I think you should try you should come to the Philippines you have a great time um as you just heard Grace says you know she loves black guys and her friends like black guys so you know

It’s it’s definitely you should definitely come and I’ve been here you know um just for a couple weeks like and it’s just been great like kicking it with Grace it’s been great and just being out and about is being being great um you know I do get a lot of attention like

Especially from by myself when I go and walk down the streets I get a lot of attention o o sometimes you know I’m just like I just want to get to the store and just get back like I want to I want to be

Like I no one sees me but they see me you know so it’s nothing I can do uh o o so so girl I know that the philipinos they like black guys um filipin the Filipinas Filipinas not Filipinos Filipinas uh they prefer the black guys

Now when it comes to sex with the black guys or for the Filipino girls who maybe have never had sex with the black guys is there something that makes them prefer black guys like do they think about something in particular because for example me I’m just like I never tried for example I

Never tried black guys before for example for example yeah and then I feel like attracted to you the moment that I see you or something like that of course the first thing that comes in my mind is that about sex the first thing that come in my in

My mind is like is this guy going to be nice to me this guy would be kind to me or something like that like I should be like comfortable with him and then for example we met like in the club or something like that of course

I’m going to have an idea that we’re going to have sex after because it’s a club it’s like a pickup point or something like that right so of course and then it’s like a first time for me right example and then I saw you and then I

Didn’t have any idea that black guys have like a black number You have no idea huh so yeah have no idea and then the moment that maybe you go like in the house and you go home with him and then you met the Black Mamba the Black Mamba you try it and then you like it and then you just keep looking for it

Keep looking that’s why they say you never go back because you keep looking for it that’s why they say once you go black you never go back yes cuz you know my friends they say they will not have any white guys or like just they just want

Black because the sex is good so the sex is good the philippinas believe the sex the black guys are tend to be better than yeah because they have they have a nice black mambas nice black Mambas black mambas and they know how to do it they know how to do it so yeah I feel like that’s that’s the main reason why they say that I mean for me meeting like black guys I feel like it’s a complete package you know especially if you met

Like a black guy that is like super kind to you comfortable with and then the sex is good like why do you have to go back right right it doesn’t make sense it does not make sense so that’s what I say interesting that’s a great response

Great response Grace um and by the way shout out to uh Kobe black mamba that’s where the phrase originated uh Kobe Bryant um famous B you know Kobe but uh you know Grace p on spin on the black mother pH uh so okay I got a question when it comes

To right uh dating in the Philippines right and like Filipino girls what do y’all like to do on like the first date do y like like first date yeah like it depends on where did you meet the guy for example you had like for example like friend refer you to this friend and

Then you have to go the date of course it’s like just going to be a simple thing maybe like a coffee or like a lunch date or something like that okay something simple for the first day like coffee yeah that’s always like the base the base like girls if you for example

You and I mhm you ask me for to ask for go for a day mhm okay and then you tell me okay can you be like here this time it’s like it be a lunch day or like a dinner day so after the the day we expected like we’re

Going to go like part ways right and I’m not going to go home with you so that’s like the the Philippines like we have this kind of culture that I mean not really a culture maybe like a mentality of girls in Philippines that if we met if we dated and then we like

Each other like we’re talking or something like that you’re not taking me directly to the bedroom you know okay okay it takes like for example it takes like maybe two more days interesting like keep talking you know got keep going because if you have to feel that the guy is like

Interested in you you have to feel that the guy just don’t want to be getting in your path you know what I mean interesting yeah that’s like the main thing I mean if you met the guy like how you say like in a more formal way formal like friend friend oh yeah I

Got you reference like that got you but if you like met a guy like in a club or like a Tinder day of course it’s not going to be the same thing different because of course the sex is going to be there in the first day for

Sure the first day right cuz you might h a club or like a Tinder something Tinder a club right because it’s like it’s a dating thing this is the day it is I feel like I feel like the thing that I said earlier I feel like that’s the

Listen like that’s not the base anymore right it’s not everything changes like per year you know because before I had like a dates like the first time I met him we did not have sex M just like coffee go home and then talk again just talk again another day try for another

Day something like that but now if you go to the club and then the guy expected you to like go with you after mhm it’s like a common thing now like the the first thing that they come into in their mind if you ask to dat you or something like that it’s like

Sex and then I don’t really I have a question oh yes you can ask me anything girl I have a question why guys mhm guys they think why huh why they think that if they feed the Girl by her drinks why do they think that they have a privilege to go in their

Bank uh well I don’t think it’s about a privilege I don’t think it’s a privilege um I I feel that going out like Mia is all about the energy it’s not necessarily about like if we go out right if we go out in the first day to go get drinks or

You know dinner or whatever it may be and the energy is there you know and the energy just leaves us to go back you know to the house and then you know we have sex or what have you like I me personally I don’t see anything wrong with that um

And I also I don’t in my opinion I don’t really believe in like I don’t want to keep like I’m I’m just being honest I’ll be really honest I’m not really one to like wait on sex like because it’s like you’ll go on all these dates and then

When you finally get to sex what if it’s horrible then it’s like H you know the sex is a big deal for both people men and women so like it’s like you right like or any girl if y’all wait right and then you find out like we we got a super

Tiny penis and he can’t s safy you and y’all been on like four dates you really like him but his his he doesn’t have a black m it’s like wait wait slow down with that yeah go ahead it for a girl you know I don’t know if it’s like only

A Filipino thing but for me if I really like the guy I don’t care if you have like small P because you like him cuz you like him you know you like everything about him not just about it’s about sex or something like that you don’t care if

You’re in love you don’t care if has a big fness or not wow you just like the guy like the guy like what you looking at what you like about him you know so so that’s the girl thing so the girl doesn’t care yes the

Girl I mean I don’t know he can be she can be like turned off with some things but she will not like going to say okay I don’t like you because you don’t give me good sex see I think that’s like maybe that’s in the philes or maybe it’s just because of

Me that’s just me no that’s I think that’s beautiful way to think about dating right I think that’s that’s a great way to think about it um but in my mind see guys are different because exactly the reason why guys are different is because like sex is like that’s not sex isn’t

Really like we just want to get that out the way but if we get sex out the way in the beginning it’s like okay what else can the the woman do to keep the man when like I first met Grace like she’s just like out the gate like she knew how

To cook like she was like throwing down great meals the way that like she just operates and stuff like that like which makes me want to keep Grace like you know around you know keep keep you around and stuff like that yeah like you know like don’t get me wrong you know

Like you know it’s amazing s always amazing you know but it’s like when it comes when it comes to like you know other things because in my from my experience like I’ve like had with you know a girl and then like I just like I I can’t really have a

Conversation I can’t really talk to him it’s like nothing nothing there and it’s just like okay this is like you know kind of a waste but um gu I do think yeah I think guys yeah I think guys do care more that yeah I think but I think girls care too

Like yeah they care it’s just like mostly mostly they they using their feelings than the than the sex right that’s true because feelings can make sex better you know so I know women are more emotional so if y’all do like a guy that can make you know the sex a lot better

Um but God I’m like that to be honest I’m I’m being honest like if you know if I’m into a girl like just like my brain just I just you know make the sex better you know uh Grace how can I how how a girl canot like

You that’s a great question are you serious are you kidding me right now that’s not true you have to delete that I’m pretty awesome that that’s not true no that’s true anybody watch it be like think it’s true your toenails look so good thank you oh goodness

Gracious see I’m a sucker for women who have great toenails and Great Nails um that’s important to me uh I take the details very seriously and Grace she keeps her toenails and her nails Top Notch and that’s something I’m very thankful for um of course and this the the bomb Panet

Which I’m still tearing up how much money do y’all prefer a guy make like you know what does it matter does it not matter like what’s what’s your opinion I feel like I feel like it will not going to matter if you’re working or if you if

You have have like a mentality that you’re independent women but if you’re not like Independent Women of course it matters because if you’re like not used to like a a thing that you go in a date the guy have to pay for it cuz me when I date a

Guy I always think that is this guy wants to pay for my meal or not because I can pay for it you know what I mean okay so I think most of the girls it matters to them it matters to them it matters to them like it’s like for me of

Course it’s sexy you know like you know the guy can pay for you like if has like a good education like a degree or something that’s like sexy for me because it’s not sexy because I mean it’s sexy for me because I know the guy is like very smart or something like

That have a degree and it have like a decent job but I’m not like looking into it like you have a money in your pack it like so that’s not when you’re meeting a new guy that’s not like the first thing on your mind is I how much money he makes

No what matters to me is like you take care Fe be kind to me you care for me you care yeah that that’s like the first thing that always come in my mind like if this guy I can be comfortable with or something like that yeah I don’t really

Care about money to be honest but I think most people in the Philippines in terms of dating they always care about money you think so yeah yeah how much money do you think they they say a guy has to make for the ones for the Filipinos that do care

About money how much money do you think they I don’t know maybe as maybe as long as long as they can pay like for dat meal or something like that okay so you don’t have like a it’s not a certain amount of money a year I don’t think so

About you just for enough to pay for dates a date just enough for like to cover the date meal for the date meal yeah okay that’s what I think because me I don’t really care about money to be honest money is you don’t care about money I don’t really care about money as

Long as the guy loves me I can’t live with you okay so it doesn’t really matter so what if you’re making more money than the guy how would you feel about that would that bother you or no no it would you will be proud of yourself and you can also thought the

Guy to make more money than you I mean it it doesn’t you know I feel like money right now is like a social status in terms of dating but to me it doesn’t matter to be honest as long as you take care of me like we in good terms doesn’t

Matter it doesn’t matter cuz I feel like most of people now they care about money and then there’s like few people that who be car about feelings yes yeah that’s what I think okay okay talking to you Grace it sounds like money is not even really a factor as

Long as you love me that’s as long as he loves you that’s beautiful girls that’s that’s beautiful um I mean I’m only speaking for myself yeah I don’t know to other girls yeah because me I’m not like a kind of person that says oh you have

To buy me this buy me that like that I’m not like that I never asked a guy to by me say yeah and that’s very attractive Grace cuz you know it’s funny like Grace’s birthday was yesterday right um as we mentioned earlier that F should been but

Uh like I remember a few days ago I was telling Grace I’m like you know we going to go out for your for your birthday and then she said she was like that sounds good but she was like you know we all got to go to like BGC so for

Those of you who don’t know BGC out here in Manila is went no more upscale areas and it’s a little expensive um that’s where actually I spent the New Year’s Eve at the rebel Club nightclub that was in BGC I found out after effect but that

Is a more expensive area and Grace was like you know we don’t have to like we don’t have to go to BGC like she’s like I could be a cheap date said I can be a cheap date you don’t have to spend money like I was like that’s very attractive

Even just going grocery shopping with Grace like you know she’s very um just cognizant of just money and expensive [ __ ] is not really you know for her if it’s not worth it you know so that’s an attractive feed American culture you know is uh I think the premise could be

Slightly different um really yeah don’t get me wrong I do feel that money isn’t everything to a lot of girls like in America but money is a a I think money is more of a factor in America than it is in the the Philippines I do feel that way um

Think so you know which you know to each his own I’m not one of those guys to say you know don’t date in America cuz I don’t believe in that I feel like it’s good people everywhere no matter what country but uh money does hold more weight you know in America just with

With people um and you mentioned being independent right earlier what exactly do you mean by that like like independent that you don’t have to be like dependent to guy to pay for you like you can do stuff from yourself for yourself like without asking a guy to do

It for you you’re talking about just MoneyWise yeah just money and some stuff like I mean because me I feel like I’m independent in terms of money only but I’m very dependent like in terms of feelings like help or something yes that is like I always ask for help I mean not

All the time but when I felt like okay I need I need someone to be there for me when I felt so down it’s like I’m dependent to that like I need to have someone to be there for me but if it’s like a money thing I don’t like guys

Spay for me that’s like I feel like I feel shy I feel shy asking you know that’s like always my behavior I don’t like guys like I mean I don’t like me asking for like money to a guy because I feel like it’s a th off for the guy to me

When you ask the guy for money yeah because you know guys right now foreigners guys in Philippines they’re very smart about money like Filipino guys yeah foreigners oh the foreigners cuz before way way before my someone just St me like guys that came in here Foreigner they don’t

Mind spending money to a girl no they were like watching every spendings that they make they doing to you so there was like I don’t want the guy think that okay this girl is only dating me because I have money and I don’t like that I

Don’t want the guy have bad thing that says to me because I know I’m not like that right so that’s I always think that’s why if it’s a money thing I’m independent that you don’t have to give me money if you don’t want to give me

And I don’t want you to say bad things about me asking right you know because it’s like embarrassing for me right but but if if like if I really need help I will ask you right like really really need help like I don’t have anyone to ask or like you’re super

Broke or something maybe I will ask you but that’s just the only the the only reason that will ask you but if I have and I know that I can survive with that certain amount of money in my bag I’m not going to ask you I rather die

Damn so that’s me that’s always like my my about that okay interesting so that’s your perspective on Independence yeah but you know I have like some friends that they don’t even care like how much I’m a guy spending you know like for example you go out like going in a

Date the girls were like okay can you buy me this buy me that buy me drink to food or something they don’t even care and I feel shy for them you know right right because I feel like I don’t know I don’t know what they think they think

That when when they think that when a guy have a lot of money they think that they don’t care about spending a lot okay right right they think if this if he so if in their mind this guy is stacked with like a ton of money then

They don’t mind just asking for a bunch of stuff yes when they go out yes right so I get those girls like they don’t feel shy or something yeah I don’t know maybe it’s just me or more maybe because it’s just me because I don’t do that

Yeah I don’t know interesting yeah you know I don’t know I mean every you know every girl has have their own motives and things of that nature um but the reason why asked you the question was just to just kind of get a idea of just the the culture

You know of of the Philippine culture right like you know just for for years like was that a thing like as far as money goes like how important was it like and just those those roads right because you mentioned like just Independence like you know and in

Relationships like the man have a road and then you know the women have a role yeah but I feel like nowadays like everything is hard feel like Philippines like culture for dating if especially if it’s a foreign guy the guy has to be a

Lot of money I mean has a lot I mean not a lot but at least a decent amount of money in their back feel like Filipinos I’m not saying all but mostly of the people that I know they think that foreigners guys are is like it’s harder competition no it’s a

Treasure if they get it you will get rich or something like that that’s I mean I feel that’s like always the thing like they think they see like a foreigners a gold since I’ve been here I haven’t met many black Americans is very few not any at all um which is even more

Reason for you know you ought to to come over here to the Philippines and try something different uh yeah bring your friends bring your friends bring your friends bring your friends to the Philippines I’m bring my friends to the Philippines shout out Chris Craig twine you know what I’m saying uh bring

Y’all man bring your friends I have [Laughter] friends and Shout out all my homies uh you know what I mean my boy T uh shout out everybody Roy everybody come to the Philippines and uh you you know just get a new experience but we going to get spicy you know I’mma

I’mma Grace is going to Port me some vodka right now um you want to pour me some vodka Grace yes Grace going to pour me some vodka and um we want to continue to have some great conversations but I want some vodka right now I just had

Some P I’m full you know um just finished the P set and now we going to get just continue to learn more you get spicy the vodka has officially been poured now it gets a bit more spicy I appreciate you for making it this far okay y’all so Grace was kind enough

To pour my vodka and lemonade see she filled it up to the top um she went a little crazy on the Voda but she did a great job on my bakan lemonade salute so we back baby umow now earlier I know you mentioned earlier that you know um sex with the black guys

Tend to be better go you you like you like the sex with the black guys so what’s the craziest place you ever had slav before crazy on the balcony on the balcony on the balcony wow so the craziest place you ever have sex on a

Balcony now the reason why I is cuz you know that makes me wonder was it a black guy a black guy was he black guy black guy do Filipino guys do it different Filipino guys I never tried with Filipino to be honest I feel like but

For me I think they all are going to do that like some crazy stuff I feel like they always want to be play safe you know play safe like because you know if you dated like a guy like the same country as you of course he knows with

Exactly that you know mhm so I feel like guys doesn’t I mean guys in Philippines I feel like they don’t like crazy stuff they just crazy when it’s like they knew a different culture for example for example that guy had like a American girlfriend of course he will go with the

Flow with the American girlfriend because the America the girlfriend was like used to that stuff right and the guy will just adjust because that’s what the girl’s like mhm so that’s what I feel so I feel like if I dated like with you know guys they were not going to do

Like crazy stuff they don’t want to do crazy stuff that’s kind of boring bedroom stuff bedroom just yeah I understand you want a little bit more excitement you know like going on the balcony and you know looking at the the skyline of uh Manila oh my God I’m definitely all for

Just you know exciting sex because I feel like when sex is exciting it just it makes it better to try new things things you never done before exactly you know like it just makes it all better um for real do you like music or no music

I’m more of a no music type of person but yeah because if I know myself I like the music I’ll sing musicing that’s not like that is not a good time for music when you’re having sex because you want to feel like you want to be like in the mood like exactly

With the guy gu yes you don’t want to be like in a different place you know what I mean right right because if you have like a music on it’s like there’s like two things coming going in your mind it messes up your M sometimes exactly like

You just want to be like with the guy at that moment and then there’s the music of course you want to feel the music as well right music no music yes no music that’s beautiful that’s beautiful there’s no music that’s beautiful like lights off you like lights off

Oh what about me me personally I’m more of a lights on type of person I don’t mind the lights being off but I like the lights on or at least just where I can like see you cuz I like yeah I like to see a woman’s body um it

Just it turns me on you know I like to just read your body just look at your facial expressions things like that but if the lights are off too sometime that can be sexy too because it’s like it’s just solely just based off just the energy the feeling that’s why I like

Light um but I’m also visual too so yeah but maybe I I me mostly I like like lights off but I also like like you can just see the guy you know like the reflection of the guy ah you like to see the reflection oh okay yes okay

Interesting no that’s I like that too I like to see the reflection uh the Shadows on the the wall like see a little bit of the face yeah not exactly like super bright right I don’t like it’s super bright like you know we on a movie or something but so maybe I like

That like not super like lights on bit lights on little bit light [Laughter] off okay said okay okay A little bit of lights on and sexy um it is sexy like sexy in the bathroom yeah a nice Dam Vibe but it’s if you’re going to do in

The balcony it has to be lights off yeah if you going to be on the balcony you know that’s a wild place that you actually had sex on the balcony like that’s that’s insane I I that it was so sexy it was sexy wow and you got a

Chance to see all of the Just the skyline I’m sure it was beautiful too you [Laughter] know what a about you you said what about me or what in what about me in the craziest Place craziest place you know it’s crazy because I actually you know I actually had sex on the

Back oh my that’s very um tough to beat I’ve been a couple crazy places though I will admit uh especially when I’m my younger when I was younger um risky really risky places to where like the cops oh could have showed up yeah kind of all over

But um but yeah I I I like like you said making things spicy having fun you know um sometimes the trail of being caught is sexy yes the grill of being caught yes that makes my adrenaline frush right no we can get caught right

Now but the SE is so good it makes it way better you know even if it’s like a quick a quicky you know it’s like intense exactly you know right but you know also just being in the bedroom can be amazing too so uh yeah maybe it depends if you really like your

For this like me cuz me mhm my my high say in my perspective if I date a guy I have to be like oh at least I like the guy like I like him something like I felt something with him something like that because I know myself if I don’t

Like the gy and I just forc myself going to you I will not enjoy the sex you want to enjoy I will not I maybe I can just act a little bit that I like the sex but I’m sure Big D me I will not like it you

W like that’s why my how you say like in my my mind every time that a guy ask me out I have to at least like the guy so if ever the sex will happen anytime I like the sex CU I like the guy I want to

Be with the guy that I like because I want to feel it when we’re doing it you know not just because you’re just inside me something like I don’t like that you don’t have a feeling you know yeah so that’s why I have to like the guy you

Have to like the guy cuz you want to you want him to be inside you and you feel you feel it because you like what he doing you and you like him right you are attracted to him everywhere exactly right so you be to sex yes sex is just

About sex you know yeah 100% 100% it can be really really good or it could be really really bad so um but like you said when you you know when you attracted to the person it makes it better yes exactly you know so I definitely get that for example you’re like really

Horny really horny you just want to release and you just get random girl you have sexy do you think you will enjoy it no I mean n not really we just need to release we just need that quick release and then you know just won’t really see so that’s

What I mean if you want to have good sex you have to at least like like it you know you got to like it so I mean you have to like the person you’re doing it right you know so now when it comes to sex right would you are you able

To like have have you ever had like a threesome before no you never had threesome never had interesting okay is that something that you just can’t do because it’s like like you’re really possessive like like that’s my black Mom so INRI something I feel like I can be open if my guy really likes doing it with me and like I can be assured that it’s just sex with that girl like I don’t have to worry about of for example that sex was so good with that girl and

Then the sex is good to me as well I know that we already for example I know we’re already having a good sex and then you also felt a good sex with her What if after the Tesa you want to do it good with her so that’s why I don’t like Tesa

That’s why because I wanted to be like make sure that you only enjoying it not with other girls but in the same time if that what’s my guy makes it makes him happy why not doing it it’s just like also an experience for me right right I’m not

Like saying okay I will not do it to anyone or forever I want to do it yeah something now okay that’s that’s a great answer Grace that’s a that’s a great answer I understand that so basically as long as he just don’t run up or like you

Know he’s just not and the other girl and the th like a lot by itself exactly um now when it comes to th like would you rather be with like girls that you don’t know or would you rather be with girls that you do know I’m curious um I want

It to do like with the girl that I don’t know that you don’t know because if I know the girl and then I see her body and every time I see her I will remember the bunny that she’s making in front of me ah ah so you don’t want to remember

Her body no no no for example she was like super crazy in the bedroom there were friends like that’s going to be always in my mind like you know what I mean like it’s awkward every time I see her okay so I it doesn’t have to be awkward though

Like so it has to be like someone that I don’t know that you don’t know but it’s also a good thing if the girl is I know which I was like I was like I can say to her oh if my guy come to don’t talk to him anymore don’t talk

To something like that so right so maybe it’s a good thing also like to have a thre with someone in you know interesting interesting yeah cuz me I’m possessive yes if if I have a guy that’s my guy that’s your guy that’s my black mama that’s your black mama

So interesting okay interesting so but you would be open though to to it interesting okay okay yeah but you know one thing that I just worried like for example you had like trees is it like you have to be safe like you know when you’re having se you have to be

Safe for example the girl is not clean or something like that yeah so with threesome normally how it should go is you know to be safe like you should the guy when if he’s when he switch from girl to girl like he s switch okay okay you should that’s how

It should go that’s the only way but I’ve done in the past like you shouldn’t really like use the same yeah use you know unless the only way you could do that is unless like everybody is like you know they they they know that they’re clean and everybody’s tested and stuff then

You could do that like you could just but if you like you said if it’s somebody you know don’t know or you know just just switch you run through a lot of condoms uh in th if you do it the safe way but that’s fine you just have

To be prepared if you know if you know that’s what you’re about to do cuz you don’t want to switch because you don’t know what other girls you know switching so ex um but that’s how it should go um thre can be fun though okay th can be fun now I have another

Question for you so with the three swims right are you cool with like the girl like giving you a [Laughter] Taste that’s really what a threes is cuz cuz for me I think I’m not seeing myself giving a taste to any girl okay that’s like not your not my T okay cuz I’m straight like 100% straight me doing that it makes me feel like I’m not straight so I don’t feel like myself

I mean I’m not I mean I don’t want to do that like it’s not me it’s not my thing right so but maybe if it’s a girl going down on me and tasting Me Maybe that’s okay for me because it’s just like maybe it just

Feel like a guy doing it to me right because it’s just a pong but it’s just a girl doing it so maybe that so you prefer for the girl to do it to you yeah but I’m not going to do it to you like a

Girl I’m not that is not my thing that’s not your thing that’s not so it’s not for me but if the girl going down to me that’s Okay oh my God okay what for example you wanted for example today tonight you wanted to have tree some or something do you like check out girls like do you have like a reference for a girl to do it uh like for example you see a girl okay I like her I

Want the other girl to be like her like the feure something oh no no they can be different like you have a three like they like she can be different completely I actually prefer probably for her to be have a different figure ah for example you’re doing like okay you

Like the girl like thick girls and other when it’s like sleep something like you mean like a a thinner girl than like a thick girl yeah like that’s great for me that’s great it doesn’t really matter but I like it could be different they could be different you

Know like and it would just be great like I I don’t really uh have a preference they have to be the same figure or okay I thought you just like slim girls no no no no I like I like thick I like thicker girls too I mean

Not I don’t be like big or nothing but you know nothing against big girls know shout out to my BBWs but you know I don’t mind like some thick you know like thickness you know maybe big big butts breasts whatever I got you you know as

She slam you know just a pretty face you know I know it’s attractive pretty face yeah anything um but I I like three I think threes can be a lot of fun um I had some FS have you done this before I have I have and never done it yeah no it’s okay

It’s okay because you know the you never know then you never know you know what the future holds or you know you never know if you never know uh but uh but yeah spicy talk so when it comes to like sex positions like what’s your favorite position I like the wri you like

The what about you me when it comes to sex positions I’m be honest I think I like them all what’s your favorite it’s tough I mean I as cliche as it sounds I do like doggy stuffff you know doggy style I like doggy style

U cuz I mean I’m a I’m a butt guy your ass person ass guy ass person I love to look your ass so doggy style is always great for me um but I also like missionary too you know cuz in missionary like you

Know if I’m On Top you know I do like to choke and stuff like that so I think so I think you know Miss is also good but I like them all yeah I really do I feel like positions is like you don’t have to decide what kind of

Position you’re do in sexy just do whatever you feel right right right yeah that’s what I K so right but that’s my favorite that’s your favorite I got you got you that makes sense I think this was uh phenomenal especially after you cook such great

Meals um with the pant set shout out to Grace cooking the pants this was definitely great conversation and um yeah we’ll probably have some more conversations and you know we’ll uh Born Ready born ready baby and we will uh document it and uh just share thoughts so you know Grace appreciate you just

For having this conversation talking like we always had conversations even off the the camera so we just had great conversations and um yeah we we always man to have a great time so uh you know I think uh yeah well we’ll probably have some more um dialogue coming so um

Exactly yeah you have to be prepared next time you got to be prepared I’m always prepared Grace come on even now I was just talking off the top talking off the top you know you know how I do uh so uh okay okay but yeah you know appreciate y’all for watching you know

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Sleep cuz I’m tired so I will holl at at y’all in the next video all right bye bye peace out