Türk Mühendisin Tokyo’daki Yaşamı | Şaşırtıcı Gerçekler

Türk Mühendisin Tokyo’daki Yaşamı | Şaşırtıcı Gerçekler

How long have you been living in Japan? Let’s say 2 and a half years. Let’s say 2 and a half. Ferhat is also one of our friends who has been living here for a long time . He lives as a mechanical engineer. Let’s do a Q&A with Ferhat. Ferhat, what was the most difficult thing you had in Japan? What comes to mind first? Human relations. Because for example, you come here with the human relations mentality of Turkey. When you are friendly, you expect a friendly response from the other person. But the Japanese are not like that. At first, you take it personally, but later you learn that it is not personal. Yes. They drink these classic shiinci nights. They approach you more distantly. What do you do after that ? You stop approaching people in such a friendly way. A little more superficially, in the sense that you have to compromise a little bit. Yes. In other words, a little superficially, a little bit because of your age. Yes. You compromise yourself, as you said. Have you ever had a moment when you really felt like a stranger in Japan ? In places other than Tokyo, in more local areas, for example, when you enter an Izakaya, you open the door of the Izakaya like this. Everyone looks at you like this. Let’s move on, brother. Like this, everyone is the new one, brother. Brother, I gave you halva. Why are you doing this to us? Brother, we never gave halva to this brother. Blonde-haired brother. He is a pornstar brother with connections to Mafia Yavuza. Seriously ? Of course. We haven’t gotten involved yet. He is a bit dangerous, brother. I don’t want to show too much. This information is only on Cemkun channel. It is not on any other channel. Ferat, let me come to the subject of garbage. A completely different subject. Oh, it is a nice, nice subject. Do you really have a hard time separating garbage? I don’t feel it is easy because it is easier for me to throw it all away in one go. But it is much better to separate it considering the environment. I think the fact that there are no garbage bins and they are still insisting on putting garbage bins is a big problem. But if they put garbage bins here, they will need as many people to clean it. It makes sense to me. Why? Actually, in terms of cleaning. Now, most people don’t look, this is a bit of an abnormal area, everyone has their own door. Would it be better if people carry it tomorrow? Would that be the case if they carry it and throw their own garbage tomorrow ? It’s actually a nice rule that can’t be seen with the naked eye. Everyone is used to that rule, there are no trash cans there. Now when you go outside of big things, it’s impossible to come across them. Well, have you heard this? Even in a place like this, even in a place like this, you rarely come across them. Its basic story is somewhat based on that Saraz chat. Actually, there was before. Brother, what did the red guy do, what did they do? I can’t see it. They shot the red guy in the ass. His friend is only 8 o’clock. They would go crazy here in 2 or 3 hours . They go crazy. Unbelievable things happen. There is also warp and stuff like that until morning. Something always comes into the conversation, I mean Japan is a country with a lot of history and subjects. That’s why we can talk about it a lot. After this bomb chat, there were actually a lot of them before. After that, they tried to reduce it a little more. It has also become a culture . You’re right. It has become a culture. Of course, it’s a bit difficult for tourists . There are also a lot of guests among my guests who walk around with garbage bags . What is your most expensive expense while living in Japan? Generally, the most expensive expense is probably something. Shall we say other than rent? Rent, but as far as I know, your rent was reasonable. Last. My rent is reasonable. Let me say less than 50,000 yen. Less than your average. Good. Good figure. Exactly. Not less than 50,000 yen. A bit out of the center though. Exactly. Out of the center. If you see it as a luxury and go out for a while, you could buy a Shinkansen ticket, for example, but there’s nothing you’d have to spend a lot of money on in your daily life . I’m thinking about it. No. No, I mean, unless you go to a Kobe restaurant and say, of course, I’m going to eat Kobe beef, no one eats it except tourists , you know. Well, I mean maybe once or twice a year . Exactly. At most. How was Costco? Costco is nice. Do you go to Costco? It’s not possible to go to the market without a car . We usually take a taxi back. Now that my wife is there too. Do you have a driver’s license? I don’t have a driver’s license but I’m going to get in. I still haven’t gotten around to it. Turkey is from Turkey, I didn’t bother. Well, they say it’s a little difficult to get an appointment. Some even say 3 months, 4 months, 6 months. From what I’ve heard, it’s also hard to pass. Of course, they drop you at the slightest mistake. Exactly. They drop you directly. They drop you at the slightest line. Did I forget the signal money or something? It’s actually a little harder to get from scratch here than it is, but it’s harder for you anyway. Oh, you can take the Turkish exam. There’s such a situation. You pay a few thousand dollars but they drop you at the slightest mistake . Was there a moment when you said, “I guess I’ve become Japanese now” while living in Japan ? Sometimes I feel superficial I guess in human relations or for example especially when talking to Japanese people I feel like I am not as lively and smiling as I am in Turkey and you can’t be friendly. You can’t be friendly . It happens to me too . It only goes so far. You withdraw into yourself just when you are about to do it . You withdraw like this. You withdraw like this. You say wow I am in Japan. It has actually assimilated a bit. It has withdrawn . It is a bit bad bad thing actually. This is a bad thing. Of course my dear. You are actually sacrificing your character . Of course most of them are bad too. Of course good things are enough to calm you down a bit more like this. Since we are generally so fast-paced and want everything to happen as soon as possible , for example do me like that. Life has actually started to flow a bit slowly like this . But I noticed this . For example this assimilation thing happens when you talk to Japanese people as you said but when you go back to Turks or in a foreign environment you feel like you are returning to the original factory settings again . Imagine coming to an environment like this for a month . An environment like this, right? You would go crazy here. We have been here for 2 hours. Takura takuras and takashis are mating in my head right now . Y What made you feel the most peaceful in Japan compared to life in Turkey ? The countryside here is very beautiful. I mean, they take very good care of the countryside. Okay, it is clean but also tidy, I love the view of those rice fields. You are traveling, where would you recommend? I would recommend Tohoku. It would be Akita, Ivate. After that, I would recommend Kuyu. It would be Fukoka, Oyta, Kantayai, Kanto. These are already well-known places. Is there a place in Japan that you love and want to live like this? Oh, there is a place that I have said I would live in for a long time. I had actually talked about this with you before in our previous meeting. Actually, because we want a bit of an international environment to live in because we are foreigners. I don’t really think about Tokyo outside of it. If I were in that situation, I would say around Fukoka, Erden. I guess it’s mostly foreigners. Yes. My wife is the same way. If I let her, she would go and live. It’s a beautiful place but the girls are beautiful, the surroundings, the people, the girls, the men, everyone is like that, it’s a little small. We passed Ukraine, uncle. Okay, uncle, I gave you Cezerye. Look, don’t do that. Cezerya Baksimet. Everyone passes through here. I gave you Cezeriye. I mean, Fuk also has an airport right in the middle of the city. That’s a very nice thing, for example, you can get to the train, the bus, etc. Did you get a car there, so you can relax? There’s also something about it, it’s easy to get abroad. Korea is closer than Tokyo, for example. Some people go there for a day. There’s a ferry for you. You go there in 3 hours. Like Okinawa. If you go to Taiwan, there’s no problem there. Pukoka is good, but the south side is a little hot. That’s in the south. Yes, it has a little problem like that . I haven’t been to Tokyo yet, they must have heard about it from you. Give Tokyo a chance in the winter. You shouldn’t go in the winter you need to go there. Do you think it is possible to live in Japan without knowing Japanese, that is, without knowing the language? As a mechanical engineer living here? You can stay in Tokyo, Yokohama , Osaka. You say that you will have difficulty in other places. I mean, Japan is a big place. Look at how many prefectures there are. If you only dare to live in these three, you can, but you will constantly feel like a tourist. I do n’t think there is any need to take such a risk. You should come here knowing a little bit of the language . Of course, knowing the language makes life easier, love. Their English is not good. There is also such a situation. You know, you must have heard a lot about Americans who come here as English teachers on a whim, settle in the countryside and then say, “Oh man, how could such a place exist?” and leave , they must love the British. I mean, the anime, manga, greenery. If you love that life so much, you can stay for a long time, but unfortunately, this does not exceed the fingers of one hand. I have a friend named Oven . He is British. His name is Ovenwen. He is a good person, I like him. Michael Owen, for example, is someone who spent a long time here but despite that, he didn’t try to learn the language and now he says, “I”, he says, “I feel like I wasted some time”. He says, “I’m going back”, for example, a man goes back to England, for example , despite spending decades here , etc. There are examples. Is it really hard to make ends meet with the money you earn in Japan? I think if we could say something like minimum wage, what would be the average for here , would it be appropriate to say 200-250,000 yen for a life in Tokyo? I don’t think it would go above 200,000 yen , minimum. Do we need a minimum of 200,000 for Tokyo? Even if you’re alone, I think if you’re alone, you can barely make ends meet with 200,000. Let me put it that way . Is there anything you would say to tourists coming from Turkey to eat this, visit there, and definitely try? Eat, drink and travel. Yes. You’re coming to Japan. The cuisine here is very different. Of course. Now I understand the Turks too. Because our cuisine is very good . Now, because our cuisine is very good, when he comes from Turkey , he knows how to suit the palate. You cut him off. Leave the last one to me. I’ll put ice in it and drink the last one . The last one, I’ll drink the last one. I think the best way to get to know a culture is through food. That’s why there are a lot of flavors in Japan that appeal to Turks as well. For example, yakiniku. I suggest you try this place. You turn right from here . You cook your own food for 2 hours without limits , eat it yourself. There’s also vagu, where you eat unlimited meat for 30 dollars, for example , right behind here, this entire street is dedicated to it. Sukiyaki. Sukiyaki is good, for example. Of course, for those who prefer pork a little more, well, there’s its meat version, but they should say pork a lot, pork is closer, but you’re right, I think they should try sushi, they should try it in their homeland. I mean, here in the heart of Tokyo, you can eat shrimp, calamari, tuna for 1 dollar . Sushi outside of Japan is very expensive. It’s unnecessarily expensive. That’s why I think they should eat real original sushi here and return. But let me say this about sushi. There are KTIN sushis that everyone goes to, you know, they buy from the conveyor belt. I do n’t think they should go there because. For example, there is an item right there. It’s made right in front of the chef. That scissors. Oh, those scissors. Go to those places. Why? Because if you buy from this conveyor belt, the guy has taken the sushi out of the fridge and put it in front of you. In other words, it’s not fresh at all. There’s something for everyone. You can eat a fish for 1 dollar. You can eat it for 100 dollars or 1000 dollars. You can research those scissors restaurants. Keep that in mind. If you type this item into Google, let’s say it’s something like this. Soba soba. Soba is also good. Look, that thing is buckwheat. Let’s say buckwheat noodles. Exactly. It’s good, but sometimes Turks may not like soy sauce. I don’t know about soy sauce but give it a shot They should give it to me. It suits my taste for example. These are the first things that come to mind. These are just Japanese things. Of course, of course. When it comes to ramen , I know these more than ramen . I don’t like ramen that much. Do you like ramen? I last had ramen months ago. Udon seems more appealing. Well, udon is both more appealing and the only reason ramen is widespread is Naruto. There’s Naruto , I swear the Naruto anime, they did a great marketing. Japan is incredible when it comes to advertising. Very good. Very good. Incredible. When it comes to this, people buy tickets and come to Shibuya, which is just an intersection . In the simplest sense, it’s an intersection, that’s Koko Drift, for example, people came here just because they watched it. Let’s say the Japanese advertise well . You live in Japan. You live alone. Do you generally have contact with Turks, Turkish communities? Or do you prefer to live on your own ? I think it’s a good problem. Do you know why? Because everyone who has just gone abroad, first of all, they think they should stay away from Turks and make foreign friends because of some negative events in Turkey. But then it dawns on them. No foreigner can understand the minds of Turks. At the end of the day, a Turk’s friend is still a Turk. That’s why I tried to do that a little bit at the beginning. I saw that friendship was not possible, man. No, it’s hard. Very hard. Yes. Right now, I have a circle of Turkish friends that I hang out with. They are all very nice. I do events and stuff together. They can be French, German, Italian, Australian. Again, the Australians, the ones that I come across, are good, but sitting around a table and worrying and talking can only go so far . It’s very hard. So the basic thing here is this. Someone you can speak your own language with. Speak Japanese, English as much as you want, like your mother tongue . I speak too. I speak well . When you speak, people look for it. It’s actually nice to feel that you understand. Let’s say you met with Japanese once. What did you talk about? How is Turkey? How is Japan? Differences. You met the second time. Well, did Japan get used to it? E 3. Come on, I’m opening it when I say let’s go on a trip, you know, etc. or about a girlfriend, for example, I’m going to get married, for example, I don’t know, he can talk limitedly, it’s very forced, but it’s very limited, that situation is a little difficult to understand, is there anyone who does it, but I see somewhere, somewhere he starts to deceive himself, somewhere he starts to enter, he enters, what he said, I see a lot in the posts of Turks who moved abroad on Instagram, for example, there is something like this here, we’re not saying this to judge, you know, in order to learn the language easily, they can communicate with foreign friends. You know, those who come to Japan and only want to learn English and Japanese are always like this ilkeber ilkeber 724 here. God, this one will speak Japanese better than all of us, he’s been here for 3 months, look, he came here, he’s still doing well here, he got off at Narita, he’s always here, he introduced me to [ __ ] Star abi, the Japanese pornstar says come , let’s talk, what am I going to talk to you about, but that guy is already a friend, not for socializing, but to improve his language a little, that ‘s for a very short time, he said, we talked before you came, I mean, this can only go so far, you can’t stay here for 3 months, bro, here, these 3 months here, you’ll go crazy, maybe you know, he said something like this, sleep-inducing pills, maps, drugs. The mouths use something bluish, drugs like this. There are some. People, others are lying down. Look, it’s like this. It’s like this, but it’s not there. Only the body is there, but the head is not there. We gave them all baklava. They came to. Everyone goes back to the factory tomorrow after a certain time . It’s necessary. Do you think transportation is expensive in Japan or is the system very good as someone living in Japan? Look, I’ve been to a few countries abroad . I’ve been to many countries in Asia as well. Especially in East Asia, Hong Kong, Korea, Macao, Taiwan. Transportation in Japan is good but expensive compared to other countries. standards, if you earn and spend here, it is expensive. Now, as you said, for example, going to Fukoka and coming back costs you 200-250 dollars. The companies here are all private. For example, the biggest private company. It is not operated by the state. Since the money goes to private companies, they set the price as they want. Go to Korea, for example. In Korea, everything is state-run. It is much cheaper. Much cheaper. There is a huge difference. Let me put it this way. I also say it because I do a bit of a guide job, that is, I also visit touristic places . My 20 dollars a day only goes to transportation. I leave in the morning and until the evening, let’s say 20-3,000 yen, but like this, I go to Asakusa and get on the subway. I get off the train, to Shibuya, Cyar, Yamet. Then I use a few to go to my own line. 20 dollars. 30,000 in 10 days, 90,000 per month. It is a lot of money. 90 per month. Then you pay rent for that money. I mean, there are people who work part-time and earn money. I made 90,000 yen per month. I hadn’t calculated it. 90,000 yen per month. So, I also spend money on transportation. It just hit me, didn’t it? Wait a minute. It hit me when I said it like that. Yes, transportation in Tokyo is advanced, but it’s very complicated. I don’t know, I think the Japanese generally like to think complicated. I’m talking to you from a tourist’s perspective. I think you’ve been to Hong Kong too, you know. I think transportation there is more practical and more logical. But there aren’t 200 gates like here. Like in Chinatown, where there’s only Tokyo and the coast in Hong Kong. The train doesn’t have the luxury of being a minute late here. What happens if it’s late? You can’t get into the station. An incredible crowd forms. Actually, it took me a month and a half to figure out the system, this Shinjuku, this station, the station behind. It took me 1 and a half months since I came to school. I was getting out of different wrong places like this every day. After learning, I realized this. It really shortens a person’s time, time is very nice, if not too much. Of course, you know where you are going. Click and exit from here. You exit from that door, you pass. The train is right in front of you anyway. A train comes every few minutes, but as you said, the adaptation process is long. It is hard to get used to here in a week or 10 days after coming as a tourist . For example, I never got lost in Hong Kong or in Korea. Because they are all connected to a single place, as they say, exit one, exit two. But it is not like that here. There are a ton of exits here. Hatay, this is Shinciku, talk about it, but Shinciku is much more difficult, you know. Çinciku is Tokyo station, Shinagawa is like an octopus, its arms are spread out like that . There are not many alternatives here except the train. For example, as I said, I am comparing it with Hong Kong. There are buses, trams and they are very active. The buses here are not that active. For example, I don’t remember when I used the bus here, for example, they are Korean. The people who went to this were Koreans. It seems like there will be only one video, Ferat. It’s nice, but the chatting and chatting goes well with Ferhat. I thank him again for living here and being a bit like-minded. He took the time to come. Do you think the Japanese really live like robots ? Especially the salarimans in big cities, let’s say. People who are very caught up in the business world. Yes, they live like that. The critical answer there is the place that needs to be underlined. The metropolitan city. For example, Fukoka is also a metropolitan city, but now you go there and it’s not as much as here . No way. It’s not as much. When a person goes somewhere there, they can chat with everyone. Here, a person goes about their business. They get stressed a lot. Of course. Tokyo Osak. Should we include Osaka? I mean, Osaka is also a bit relaxed. Maybe Osaka’s namba or something. Tokyo is a bit like a language from this world in those matters. You can’t say Japan is like this, for example. You can’t. It’s very different. What is the strangest rule in Japan for you? A verbal rule? An unspoken rule. So that ‘s not the case either. Now, there is no such practicality in these. Let’s get this straight from the get -go . They’re still using the fax machine. What about you? Have you used it? I have used it once , I say don’t do it bro. Everyone knows Japan as a developed place. Why are things like this that can be done in PDF? I would say fax. Of course, there needs to be a little bit of trust in paper documents, in other words, they need to switch to technology . It is also a bit about security, but it is very difficult to change the Japanese. Y do you know that I hear the same sentences for Germany ? I mean, just like you are living in the 80s in the 80s, the Japanese are actually living in the 80s now, mentally, such a situation is emerging. Right, right. Exactly. We are in 2025, but are the Japanese really insensitive or are they like this towards the outside world? I think this is another very good question . Look, this is a cultural thing. Okay? They don’t do it because they want to, but because of the way they are raised. For example, we probably talked to you before, bro, they have really cute babies, they don’t take their hands and pet them or hug them. How can you resist this ? Look, I will turn the camera. We went to visit. We went to a friend who had a Japanese baby. I saw the baby. You know the baby is very cute. Babies in Japan , there is no such cuteness in the world. You take it like this, pinch its foot, do something like this with its belly. The baby is already laughing. Okay, I’m showing off like this. His mother came right away and started filming us like this. She was surprised. She started filming. You think you’re a newbie, take care of yourself. Take care of your own self. She took out her camera and filmed us like this, the woman was surprised, she didn’t see the child then. There’s no such thing as jumping into the air, don’t pinch its flesh like that. Now what comes out of this after a while? The child becomes antisocial. That’s exactly what I was going to say. After 10 years, 15 years, 20 years, they become introverted. The man comes here and spends money at the nightclub. He goes to Görs. He goes there like Davim . They can’t open up to each other easily . Their friendships are superficial. Such problems arise. I mean, there are good sides, but as much as there are good sides, there are also bad sides , there are actually problematic sides that can drive a person to suicide. Because that’s why the Japanese can’t be sincere. That’s the problem. The problem is generally the psychological Ali movements of the Japanese are always like this, robotic in my opinion, you know the good side, we don’t say anything about the good side, but this is also a problem, I mean the Japanese are like this, for example, children who do not have physical contact do not develop some feelings. I remember hearing this from a doctor myself. This is a real scientific thing. Well, a person like this cannot be sincere in the future even if he wants to. Such a thing has not developed. Don’t you understand? Yes. I can’t say anything else about it. The subject is like this, as we said, what is good is very good, but we always show everything, good and bad on the channel. This is the problems of this place and you can’t change it, this culture. It is very difficult. Look, for example, some of my Japanese friends said something to me. You know, some foreign-like Japanese people say when I hug like this with my mother, for example, they say something foreign, my Japanese friends criticize me because I hug with my mother, they say, my mother, she is mine. In fact, they say it should be normal. That is the situation in Japan. We need to talk a little more with age. Why is it done like this? Now he would say, I saw it from my mother. He was going to say that I saw it from my mother . Most of the things are from the, uh, period. From the Edo period. Let’s translate it a little bit, of course, there are psychiatrists, so that we can go back to his childhood. For example, if a psychologist came here and became a psychologist, someone would earn a lot of money . Isn’t he a psychologist? Görs goes here and there. Beyham Beyhan Budak brother came at one time. We met like that. He also wrote a book for the man. I send my regards to Beyham Budak brother here. Go to his clinic , friends. I also visited him in Ankara. He doesn’t mind the money when he comes here about Japanese. He also writes a book. He understands and speaks very well. 70%, 80% of the Japanese, let me say the majority of everyone has psychological problems. Unfortunately, there is. There are many especially in big cities . We are going through both the good and bad aspects of Japan. Let’s say the realistic aspects. In general terms. I am asking my critical question. Ferat, was there ever a side in Japan where you said “I can’t do it here. I want to go back to my country”? I think there was . Well, this happens especially in the first year. After you get over the first few months of honeymoon period, especially in human relations, as I mentioned at the beginning, when you don’t get the sincerity you give, when you see that your expectations are not met here, there are times when you say this. After a year of setting foot on important things, that happens to me too. I don’t think there is anyone who hasn’t come here and lived it. There is no one who hasn’t lived it. There is no one who hasn’t lived it. In other words, if there are those who haven’t lived life, they are in a very artificial environment. What I am saying is deceiving. Especially in Japan, what do you recommend more than other countries like Europe, America, Canada, Australia ? I would suggest people not to take things personally. I don’t think they should have such high expectations, like Japan is waiting for me, everyone will greet me as a friend. Also, as I said, when a friend here doesn’t get a friendly response from the people they approach, they shouldn’t take it personally. Because this is not a personal situation. This is their general culture . In other words, this is not a situation specific to you . These are like this for everyone. If you adapt, if you say okay I’m going to live here for a long time, you have to adapt. Exactly. In other words, here it goes through such and such a stage. You say, look, this is not specific to me. This is their culture. Either you’ll herd this camel or you’ll leave this other one. This is like this everywhere, but I don’t think it’s just Japan. Let them come, let them pass right and left, let them enjoy it for the first month, but it’s important to adapt. If you can’t adapt, then you can find yourself in places like these, like the Japanese youth . Exactly. The rest come. Everyone is here. Ferat, I have one last little rakı and a few eye drops left here. I’ll drink that. I haven’t drunk any. Then I’ll do your head like this. I’ll get myself some ice.

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